It didn’t take long for my ex-wife to move someone else in (Jason) and then to dump him to move on to an old school chum (Simon).
Meanwhile the ex-girlfriend (Gillian) took less than a month to find someone, although claimed it wasn’t serious yet but a seriously high sex drive will make you do anything. I would guess it’s even higher now.
Damaged twice now, personal recovery time more 2 years. I was little rough with the hearts of my casual encounters. I broke one girls’ heart, a drunken Christmas party and we ended up back at her place (ed: btw I was the only one drunk that means I was taken advantage of). This ‘booty call’ didn’t stop for weeks; one day in work I was asked where this was all going; I said didn’t want anything serious; had to deal with tears soaking into my shirt for a good half hour.
Had a blast with another girl; drunken hot tub (ed: drawback had to clean up the vomit later, but I was rewarded later that week); also had a threesome as a birthday present. No broken hearts here truly was a bit of fun for both of us.